
Guys tend to navigate so many things in their lives on their own,
carrying inside their heads what others are quietly carrying too.
We are
“a feeling of closeness and community, often built by working toward shared goals or going through an experience together”Men you can count on.Men who can count on you.
This is a place where one man’s experience becomes another man’s wisdom.
“Onlyness” Goes Unnoticed
In over 40 years of interviews, Jim as a researcher, Dave as a therapist/coach, we keep hearing:
“I thought that was just me. I thought I was the only one.”
This isn’t loneliness; this is “onlyness” and it’s so baked-in to the culture of being a man that it’s unnoticed. Men are taught to solve their problems alone and don’t see how this isolates them.


CAMARADERIE is a platform where men solve the problem of onlyness together by sharing their experience with others—anonymously, comfortably and without judgment.
Sharing stories helps a guy find his footing while honoring the experience of others. The story is a language all men speak, and through this comes the connection all men seek.
What's true here:
Men contribute experience — not advice.
Men connect through stories — not algorithms.
Men show up as equals — not teachers, not students.
Men focus on better questions — not easy answers.
Men are anonymous contributors — not judges.
A Challenge and a Preview
There are many situations when a guy doesn’t know what to say, what to do, or how to feel. And most of that uncertainty is experienced in silence.
We’ve identified 7 mountains most of us navigate in life and pulled out some questions on which our members have shared their experience.
Click on any mountain that appeals and declare your own experience to each question to get a sense for where you might be of service to others or where you might benefit from another guy’s experience.
